Margot + Matt
We are Matt and Margot. From the very beginning of our adoption journey, we have been praying for you. We can only imagine how much thought, love, and courage it takes to consider adoption. We are incredibly hopeful about growing our family through adoption, and it would be a tremendous honor to raise and love your child. If you choose us, we promise to cherish them every single day. Our home is filled with love, laughter, faith, and a deep commitment to raising a child to know they are treasured beyond measure. As you learn more about us, we hope you see the kind of life and family we hope to share with a child.
Hello,
We are Matt and Margot, and we are so grateful that you would take the time to learn a little about us. We can only imagine how much thought, love, and courage it takes to consider adoption. Even though we do not know your story yet, we want you to know that we deeply respect you and the care you have for your child. As you read through our profile, you will notice we only use the word "child." We want you to know that we are open and prepared to bring home more than one child. Whether that is twins, triplets, or siblings, please know our hearts and home are ready for them.
From the very beginning of our adoption journey, we have been praying for you. We pray for your peace, for your strength, and for wisdom as you make decisions for your baby's future. Whether you ultimately choose another family or us, please know that you are constantly covered in our prayers. You matter to us, and your child matters to us.
We are incredibly hopeful about growing our family through adoption, and it would be a tremendous honor to raise and love your child. If you choose us, we promise to cherish them every single day. Our home is filled with love, laughter, faith, and a deep commitment to raising a child to know they are treasured beyond measure.
As you learn more about us, we hope you see the kind of life and family we hope to share with a child. A life full of love, stability, encouragement, and joy. More than anything, we want you to know how much respect we have for you and the strength it takes to walk this path.
Thank you for taking the time to read our profile and to consider us. We will continue to pray for you and your baby, and we are grateful for the love you are showing your child through every step of this journey.
WITH SO MUCH LOVE & CARE,
Matt & Margot
OUR STORY
INITIAL ATTRACTION
"I was drawn to Margot's humor, her beautiful eyes, and her smile. I love how caring, fun, and spirited she is." -Matt
"I was first attracted to Matt's caring nature. Matt is the most loving person I've ever met. Whether he is caring for me, our dogs, our family & friends, our church, our neighbors, or the unhoused; Matt is always thinking of others." -Margot
A SNAPSHOT INTO OUR LIVES
WHEN WE MET FOR THE FIRST TIME: 11.2018
WHEN WE GOT ENGAGED: 03.2022
WHEN WE GOT MARRIED: 04.2023
WHEN WE STARTED THE ADOPTION PROCESS: 11.2024
THE BEGINNING
We met on a dating app and quickly connected over our shared sense of humor, love of sports, good food, funny movies, and especially Christmas. What began as an easy conversation turned into something that felt natural and steady right away.
We started dating at the end of November, just as the holiday season was beginning. Our second date is one we still talk about often. We visited a small town that transforms for Christmas each year. It's like something out of a Hallmark movie. It was simple, fun, and meaningful, and it's now a tradition we continue every year with our extended family. We have dinner at an Italian restaurant on Main Street, walk through the lights, and grab hot chocolate from firefighters outside the station.
On our third date, Matt taught Margot how to make tamales. That experience turned into another tradition we've kept ever since. Each Christmas season, we make tamales together and enjoy the time it gives us to slow down and be together. Traditions like these are an important part of our home and something we look forward to sharing with our children.
We also love visiting a nearby farm, each year, that grows tulips in the spring and sunflowers in the summer. You'll notice that tulips hold a special place in our hearts. In the spring of 2022, among rows of tulips, Matt proposed there. It's a place that holds a lot of meaning for us and marks the beginning of our family.
OUR FAMILY VALUES
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FAITH - Our faith guides every choice we make, whether at home, work, church, or in our community. It shapes how we love, forgive, and support one another. It is our blueprint for life. Jesus laid down His life so we might know love, grace, and mercy. By keeping our faith as the foundation of our family, we strive to honor God in all we do and by sharing that same love, grace, and mercy with others.
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LOVE - In our home, biblical love isn't a rule; it's who we are. We strive to be patient and kind. To celebrate one another's joys, and bear each other's burdens. We honor, cherish, and protect one another. In our marriage, we do this through service, forgiveness, respect, clear communication, and listening with intent. Our goal is always to love each other the way Christ loves the church.
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SERVICE - Whether we're serving at our church trunk-or-treat, packing bags of supplies, or handing out meals to the unhoused, bringing meals to friends who recently had surgery or a new baby, or serving each other and our families, service anchors who we are. Our goal is to ultimately serve the Lord in all we do and to share His love with others through acts of care, generosity, and compassion.
WHY WE CHOSE ADOPTION
Adoption has been on our hearts for a long time. We first talked about it while we were dating, and it was something we continued to explore early in our marriage. Even then, we both felt a deep sense that welcoming a child through adoption might one day be part of our story.
Later, we each received diagnoses of infertility, and adoption became our only path to parenthood. While that news was difficult, it also confirmed something we felt God had placed on our hearts long before. Through prayer and time, our excitement for adoption has only grown.
We truly believe this is the path God prepared for our family. We are so grateful and hopeful for the day we can welcome a child into our home and begin the beautiful journey of parenthood through adoption.
HOW WE WILL HONOR YOU
We know that a child's story begins long before they come into our home, and we will always honor the love, strength, and courage of their expectant parents. We will speak about you with deep respect, gratitude, and kindness so your child grows up knowing how loved they were from the very beginning.
We will make sure your child knows where they come from and has love for their story. If your family has a unique culture or heritage, we will celebrate it and weave it into our home through traditions, food, stories, and learning. We want your child to grow up with a strong sense of identity and a deep understanding of the people and history that are part of who they are.
Our hope is that your child will always know their story is beautiful, meaningful, and filled with love from every side.
MEET MATT
A WORK-LIFE CENTERED AROUND SERVICE
CHEF | COACH | DEACON | LEADER
For many years, I worked as a chef, creating both local and international dishes. I loved the creativity of the kitchen and the way food brings people together. As much as I enjoyed it, I knew the long, late hours wouldn't allow me to be the present husband and father I hope to be. That led me to transition into the IT field, where I now work as a Project Manager.
No matter the role, I've always loved encouraging and supporting others. I'm someone who values patience, kindness, and making people feel seen and appreciated. These are qualities I look forward to bringing into fatherhood every day.
I also serve as a deacon at our church, where I care deeply about our community. I've had the opportunity to support individuals experiencing homelessness and walk alongside those in addiction recovery. Serving others is a big part of who I am, and I'm excited to share that heart with a child.
WHAT I LOVE
- COOKING EXERCISE
- TENNIS
- READING THE BIBLE GARDENING
- VILLANOVA BASKETBALL
- WASHINGTON,
- D.C. SPORTS
- SERVING OTHERS FAMILY TIME WALKING OUR DOGS
MATT AS A FUTURE DAD
I look forward to being a dad more than I can put into words. I want to be present, patient, and someone my kids can always come to. My hope is to create a home where they feel safe, deeply loved, and encouraged to grow into who god created them to be. Above all, I want them to know how loved they are, how to love others well, and to truly know Jesus. I want our home to reflect that through prayer, kindness, forgiveness, and serving others.
I'm also excited for the fun parts like playing outside, going on adventures, and making lasting memories together. Whether it's sports, trying new foods, or exploring new places, I hope to help them grow curious, compassionate, and open-hearted.
At the end of the day, I want my kids to know I'll always be there to guide, support, and walk beside them through every stage of life. Being a dad is a role I feel incredibly grateful and excited to step into.
IN MARGOT'S WORDS
Matt is going to be the BEST father. He is calm, patient, and has a genuine kindness that makes people feel comfortable and cared for. He treats others with respect, encouragement, and consistency, and I know he will bring those same amazing qualities into fatherhood. Matt leads with humility and strong faith, always trying to do the right thing and love people well. Our niece and nephew ADORE him. They run into the room shouting his name and jump straight into his arms. I know our children will feel safe, valued, and deeply loved as he guides them with wisdom, laughter, and a heart that reflects Christ's love. I truly believe fatherhood will be one of the greatest roles of his life.
MEET MARGOT
A WORK-LIFE CENTERED AROUND CHILDREN
NANNY | TEACHER | DIRECTOR | CREATOR
Caring for children has always been one of the greatest joys of my life. As a nanny, I had the privilege of caring for many children across several families, creating a safe, loving, and fun environment where each child felt truly known and valued. Many of those families are still a special part of our lives today, and the children hold a lasting place in our hearts. They adore Matt and love spending time with "Mr. Matt."
Today, I am a preschool teacher, where I get to create a classroom full of fun, curiosity, creativity, and laughter. From science experiments and nature walks to crafts and dance parties, I love helping children learn and feel celebrated every day. In August 2026, I will begin the role of Assistant Director, which will eventually give me more flexibility as a mom.
I also serve in a communications role at our church, doing social media and graphic design. It is a fun and creative position that allows me to continue doing what I love while prioritizing time with family.
WHAT I LOVE
- PUZZLES
- FAMILY TIME GOLFING
- COOKING
- TENNIS
- BAKING/SOURDOUGH NEEDLEPOINT BASKETBALL FUNNY MOVIES PAINTING
- READING
IN MATT'S WORDS
One of the things I love most about Margot is how naturally she connects with children. She makes every child feel seen, included, and loved, and brings so much joy by turning everyday moments into fun. Watching her with the kids makes me so excited to see her become a mom. Her faith is at the center of who she is and shows in her patience, kindness, and love. She wants our children to grow up confident and deeply loved by us and by Jesus. I know she will create a home where our child feels safe, supported, and free to be themselves. I'm so grateful she's my wife, and I can't wait to watch her become a mom.
A LETTER FROM A BIRTH MOTHER
Dear Expectant Parent,
Although we've never met, I feel a deep connection to you. As a birth mother myself, I understand the mix of love, fear, hope, and weight you may be carrying.
I'm writing because I know Margot well and wanted to share about her from a perspective that understands how important this decision is. When I was in your place, what mattered most was knowing my child would be loved, safe, and truly seen, and I believe with all my heart that Margot can offer that.
We work together as preschool teachers, and I see every day how naturally she cares for children. She gets on their level. She is patient, kind, and full of genuine joy. She listens, comforts, and celebrates each child in a way that makes them feel valued.
Margot's desire to become a mother comes from deep love and intention. She understands that adoption holds both love and loss and approaches it with care and respect.
What brings me the most peace is how she honors the role of a birth mother. She knows you are an essential part of your child's story and is committed to honoring that with gratitude and sensitivity. Whatever you choose, please know the love guiding you now will always be part of your child. If you are considering Margot, I truly believe she will provide a life full of love, stability, and opportunity.
With understanding and respect,
Jen
HOPE FOR OUR CHILD
Our hope is to raise a child who knows they are a precious gift, uniquely created and deeply loved. We look forward to Sunday mornings at church, bedtime Bible stories and prayers, and teaching them to see the beauty in loving and serving others. More than anything, we want to lead by example, showing them how to walk with grace, kindness, and a heart for the Lord.
As we look toward our future, our biggest dream is to build a life for our child that is rooted in faith and overflowing with joy. As we've grown together in our marriage, we've learned that a life centered on Jesus is a life full of purpose. We envision a home where our child feels god's love every single day, in small moments, gathered around the kitchen table or big moments, exploring the world together.
OUR FAMILY RECIPE
In our house, food and family are everything. We love to mix Margot's Southern roots with Matt's Italian-American traditions, so there will always be plenty of pasta, biscuits, and laughter to go around.
While we have our own traditions, we know our child's story begins with you. We are committed to honoring their birth heritage just as much as our own. We look forward to weaving your family's stories and traditions into our daily lives, so our child grows up proud of every part of who they are.
YES!
We want our home to be a place of discovery. Whether it's just playing outside, painting, science experiments, gardening, or cheering on our favorite teams, we want our child's life to be full of "yes."
We aren't just looking to pass down our own hobbies; we want to be the steady ground that lets them find their interests. Our dream is to raise a curious, compassionate child who knows they are supported by many families who want the very best for them.
EDUCATION
With Margot working at the top preschool in our area, our child will have a wonderful head start in a community we already know and love. From there, we're blessed to live in a place with great public and private options. Having experienced both ourselves, we truly value the unique strengths each path offers.
We both believe that education can look different for every person, and our own experiences with school took different paths. Our hope is that our child will grow up in a supportive environment where they can complete their K-12 education and build a strong foundation for their future. After high school, we will encourage them to keep learning in whatever way fits them best. We will encourage a 4-year degree, but we know that isn't the right path for everyone. More than anything, we want our child to pursue their passions, set their own goals, and be successful and supported in their pursuit.
OPEN ADOPTION
We believe that openness in adoption is a gift for everyone involved. Our goal is to stay connected in a way that feels natural, meaningful for our child, and respectful of your comfort. This isn't just our journey, so we hope to build a relationship rooted in mutual respect and the deep love we both share for our child.
In our home, our child will always know how much you love them. They will grow up in an environment where they feel safe asking questions and where we speak of you with nothing but kindness and honor. Whether it's through photos, letters, phone calls, visits, or online communication, we want to ensure our child grows up with a clear sense of where they come from and the people who cherish them.
FAMILY MEANS EVERYTHING TO US
Family is so important to us. Some of our favorite memories are spending time with our family. That means a casual dinner or fun activity with family who live nearby or traveling to visit those who live farther away.
Margot has one brother who is married and has three children. Her parents are both still living and happily married, and they all live close to us. We spend a lot of time together, and everyone is so excited to welcome the newest member of our family. Margot also has one living grandparent, Nana. Her nine great-grandchildren call her "Gigi," and she is absolutely thrilled to meet her new great-grandbaby. She also has many aunts, uncles, and cousins that she is close with.
Matt is an only child and grew up in a home with two parents who loved each other deeply. His dad passed away in 2016. His mom lives in Washington, DC, near her brother, his wife, and five of Matt's cousins, who feel much more like siblings to him and their families. They are a close-knit group and have been incredibly supportive and excited about our decision to grow our family through adoption.
We have extended family in Georgia, Kentucky, Texas, Alabama, Massachusetts, and New Hampshire. We love traveling to visit them and exploring their cities together.
Our child is already so loved and prayed for by all of these family members. Please know that they are
also praying for you. You are deeply cared for and cherished by our whole family.
Glizzy & LC
Our dogs, Glizzy and LC, bring so much joy and laughter into our home. LC is our fluffy, slightly crazy, incredibly sweet goldendoodle who seems to have endless energy and even more love to give. She keeps us laughing every day with her playful personality. Glizzy, our lab mix, is her calm and steady counterpart. He is cuddly, gentle, and truly the sweetest dog you'll ever meet. Both of our dogs are wonderful with other dogs and very gentle with children, and we love the warmth and happiness they add to our home.
A LETTER FROM THE GRANDPARENTS
What an amazing person you are to give the gift of life. I can't imagine this is an easy decision, but one of pure selflessness. I'm sure you are concerned about finding the best couple, one that is loving, stable, financially sound, adventurous, with a supportive family around to help.
I can't think of better adoptive parents than Margot and Matt. Margot is a preschool teacher who is a fierce advocate for children! She has completely changed the curriculum at the preschool where she teaches to give all children the best start possible. She incorporates learning that excites and challenges the children. She understands that little lives need to run and play, and have lots of love and encouragement. She is the most requested teacher at the school.
Matt is a favorite uncle. He's funny and an amazing chef, and Italian. He's an only child who loves family. There's not a kinder man on the face of this earth. Both he and Margot are very involved in their church. When they started, they were the only young couple there. Together with the new young pastor and his family, they have helped expand their church with new young families by supporting family events at the church. Matt is a Deacon whose focus is on outreach, and Margot oversees social media and graphic design.
As grandparents, we have tried to make our home a place where the grandkids want to visit. With Margot's help, we have a playroom I would have loved as a child. We try to have everything a child would need when they are at our house, from diapers and wipes to extra outfits, toys, books, games, sippy cups, and their favorite snacks. We have extra toothbrushes, art supplies, things for experiments, and built-in playmates with kids in our neighborhood.
Your baby will be loved and supported by our entire family. We have three grandchildren that will be amazing cousins. I come from a large family who cherishes children, so extended family will also be in the mix.
While we know this is not an easy decision, we want you to feel confident your child will be in good hands with Margot, Matt, and pups Glizzy and LC.
Much love and adoration,
Becky and Steve
(Margot's Parents loving named Bebe and Dah by the grandchildren)
OUR HOME
This is not our home. This is a house in our neighborhood that is within walking distance of our church. We had our wedding reception here and love to take pictures here for special moments.
FROM OUR HEARTS TO YOURS...
Your love for your child is so clear to us, and we do not take that lightly. No matter which family you choose, please know how deeply we respect you and the courage it takes to choose adoption. Choosing a path for your child's future requires incredible strength and selflessness. If you were to choose us, your child would grow up knowing that this decision was made out of deep love and care for them. We would always speak of you with respect and gratitude. We are also open to staying connected in whatever way feels most comfortable for you, whether that means updates, visits, or simply knowing your child is growing up in a home filled with love.
OUR PROMISES TO YOU
We will raise your child in the Christian faith, teaching them about Jesus and encouraging them to live with love, kindness, and respect toward others.
We will honor you and where they come from by respecting and embracing their birth culture and by making sure they understand and have love for their story and their roots.
We will listen to your child. They will grow up knowing that their voice matters and that their thoughts and feelings are important. We will always support them, encourage them, and create a home where they feel safe to share anything.
We will cheer loudly for your child in sports, in school plays, in art, or in whatever they are interested in.
We will always read bedtime stories.
There will always be plenty of fun and laughter in our home, like silly dance parties in the kitchen, goofy jokes, and moments that make us all smile.